First thing, technology is a big part of our lives now and that's probably not going to change anytime soon. The advancement that's occurred throughout the years is a great one and people are starting to realize that its not going away so it makes it difficult for my family to get used to the idea. They are used to having time with the family that doesn't include distractions like cell phones and television. It was all about the interaction with one another that made the family so strong that now, its becoming a bit difficult to be interactive with each other with technology included in the mix. That's why when it comes to this, its very hard for me to adjust from my lifestyle to the one of my family's. I'm used to having technology with me like my cell phone, tablet, and laptop, and trying to leave it behind is super difficult.
Another thing that's hard to keep the balance with is the language that I speak. I grew up with speaking Spanish as well as English since my parents wanted me to speak both languages. Growing up, I always had to adjust to speaking Spanish at home and English at school, but at times, I would confuse them both and mix them in with one another. Being a child, I didn't think it was a big deal, but it was. Sometimes, I would be in trouble for just mixing up the two, creating the language of Spanglish. My parents after a while though began to realize that English was a big part of my life that eventually they began to adjust it as well. They knew if I was going to make any progress of what is right or wrong, they would need to actually teach me the differences and that's what happened. It was a long process, but we all found a balance in my family, even if at times we still speak English at home.
The equilibrium that people look for when it comes to our identity and our family's culture is a great challenge, but its what makes us who we are. Being a Hispanic girl as well as an American girl is a balance that is very difficult to attain, even when your family is constantly reminding you by calling you a gringa, but its just who I am. I'm not ashamed of being both and no one should ever be either. That's why when it comes to achieving that equal, we shouldn't be afraid of being both. Being like Dee and embracing one side and not the other is what made her be the way she was, a bit rude. Maggie is the same way. Being loyal to her mother made her lose herself in the process so that balance that we all look for, is what we need to find if we don't want to end up like those two characters.